How cani find out my partners email address and password?

Im sure she is cheating on me and id rather know and get out of the relationship and stay and get hurt.on the other hand if she is not that would be wonderful and i can be happy.

How cani find out my partners email address and password?
Sorry my friend, your much better off just asking her. If your down to asking for her password etc, there is no love between you. Relationships can't exist unless you trust each other. Sit down and talk to her. Don't know your circumstances, age etc. Or if your married. Obviously your hurting and upset. Wish you all the best in sorting it out. regards alan
Reply:if u dont know the addy then the secret question wont help to change the password. if u dont ask her what it is 'just out of curiousity' as u wanna send her sumink i think ur pretty stuck
Reply:The answer to your question is that you can't really. Whether email is provided by your ISP or whether you are using a web-based account, the administrators can never find out what the password is. They could reset it for you, but then your girlfriend would obviously know that someone had done this.





But ... why would you want to do this? My housemate's boyfriend suspected that she was cheating so he read through all of her text messages. She found out and dumped him straight away, and that's exactly what I would have done too. And no, she wasn't cheating.
Reply:You say you're sure. Don't degrade yourself by sneaking into her e-mail. Just tell her how you're feeling. She'll either admit it or bend over backwards to reassure you that she loves you and would never, ever think of doing anything like that. Trust your gut.
Reply:Well go to a computer store site and buy a KEYLOGGER program. You could then install it, and even have the info sent to your computer then you could see what she is doing. This is what parents may use to see and screen what sites their kids are seeing.
Reply:Why are you so sure that she is cheating?


Maybe you could ask this question again, giving solid reasons for your fear. If nothing else, doing so might clear a few things up in your own head. Snooping through her things, in this case her private mail, is not a particularly nice thing to do. And It could come back to haunt you.


Trust, works both ways.
Reply:Sit her/hm down, look her/him in the eyes and say " I know you've been cheating on me.......I've checked your emials". Then say nothing.


If she/he asks how you checked, just say nothing.





Remain silent keeping her/his gaze. People have a natural tendancy to fill the silent gap.......he/she will talk.
Reply:unless you are the main account holder you cant
Reply:well, when she's checking her email, look over her shoulder and get the address and the password.
Reply:hmm.. if you don't want her to know you are wondering, there is something called a key logger, it will log all the keys pressed in a given time. With this you will access to the password and the email and every other site, etc. she accesses. Try to do this and set it up when she isn't home so there are no confrontations. Also you will be able to choose a location to be able to access the "logs" taken from the logger or you can just check the logs when she isn't home. good luck, =) (You can download a keylogger off the internet, do that and set it up.) Don't go out and buy loggers.
Reply:why dont you just ask him or her???


i will be better if you talk to him face to face.....


it might hurt you more to find out a different way....
Reply:well i only know how if you have access to her computer, update me.....


Do you have access, if yes i know how, choose me as best answer so then i know if you changed your answer. Then i'll email you...